Whatever Happened to the Search for Truth?

Why have so many Christians and people of other faiths stopped searching for truth? I thought truth was a tenet of most faiths. After all, Jesus claimed He was The Way, The Truth, and The Life. John 14:6

I just don’t get it. The importance of truth is all over the Bible.

“And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” (John 8:32)

“The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth.” (Psalm 145:18)

“God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” (John 4:24)

The list goes on.

Yet, many people of faith have devoted themselves to a pathological liar. They worship someone with a proven record of deception, cheating, and stealing and want this person to lead our country. This person has sexually mistreated women and brags about it. This post sounds political, but it is the truth. I haven’t mentioned the person’s name, but this person is worshipped like a God. What is it about him that makes people want to support him? If they think he is on their side, they are wrong. This person will turn on anyone in a heartbeat and only cares about himself.

I don’t get it. Do they not see it? I think they do but have chosen the path of willful ignorance.

“Good Enough”-Book Club Questions

Some of you may know that I used to coordinate a book club with a Catholic Priest. The club consisted of a group of readers who alternated between reading fiction, non-fiction, and spiritual books. One of my jobs was to create discussion questions for the group about the books we read. Now that I am finished writing my own novel, it seems logical that I should write book club questions for it. I will update my book on Amazon to include them, but you can also get them here. I have kept the questions deliberately vague so as not to give away spoilers.

  1. “He sometimes leads you where you don’t want to go.” Do you agree? Have you ever been in a difficult situation and later looked back to see how much growth it gave you?
  2. Do you think people of faith should isolate themselves from those with different beliefs? What is the risk of surrounding oneself with those of opposing beliefs? Is it possible to be “in the world” and not “of it?”
  3. How much did you know about spiritual direction before reading this book? How does it differ from counseling or pastoral counseling? What do you think about Fr. Callahan?
  4. Why do you think Claire was drawn to religious life? Would you describe her as more spiritual or religious? How strong is Claire’s faith? Do you think she found her vocation?
  5. What is the best way to deal with an alcoholic family member?
  6. Why do you think the funeral was packed with people? Do you think anyone sincerely mourned the loss of Claire’s father?
  7. How do you love someone who engages in criminal behavior? Should family members protect each other and help to cover up crimes?
  8. Did any of the events in the book surprise you?
  9. Do you think bachelor and/or bachelorette parties are a good idea? What do you consider cheating in a committed relationship, and where do you draw the line?
  10. Why do you think Claire made the choices she made? Do you agree with Claire’s choices? What choices would you have made differently? What advice would you have given to Claire?
  11. Which character did you like the most? Which character did you like the least? Which character would you like to sit down with for dinner?
  12. Do you think people like Alec are redeemable? Did you see any good in Alec? Why do you think Alec was attracted to Claire? Do you think Claire could have handled the situation with Alec differently?
  13. Do you agree it is okay to kill someone in self-defense? Do you think Claire committed any sins in this book? If so, what were they? Who else committed sins and what were they?
  14. Do you think Claire’s parents loved her? What kind of relationship did the parents have with each other? What does it mean to “Honor your father and your mother?”
  15. What are your thoughts on Vinny and his pursuit of Claire? Did any of his actions surprise you?
  16. Can you think of a situation where someone made a choice because they wanted to avoid the truth?
  17. What do you think of Claire’s relationship with her cousin, Diane? How would you define family loyalty?
  18. What do you think of Claire’s relationship with her mother? Do you think her mom was happy with her life?
  19. Do you think the title fits the story? What does it mean to be “Good Enough?”
  20. What do you hope happens next for Claire?

Marketing Struggles of an Introvert

My novel is self-published, so it would seem I am finished. Nope. After fourteen years of researching, writing, and editing my novel, I must now research, learn, and attempt to market my novel. After all, in today’s world, almost anyone can write a book with the advent of software like MicroSoft Word. In addition to that, almost anyone can self-publish a book because of how easy it is to do it. Because of this, my book, or any book, will most likely get lost in the piles of newly published pieces of work, if there are no efforts put forth to sell it. Therefore, I must come out of my naturally introverted shell and try to market my novel.

Marketing or sales do not come easy to me. On the Myers-Briggs personality scale, I am an INFJ, which means I am Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Judging. I do not like to persuade people to do something they don’t want to do or buy something they don’t want to buy. Live and let live is my motto, and I respect people’s wishes. Advertising and promoting myself makes me uncomfortable. But if you are a novel writer, like me, who isn’t a well-known best seller, you must market your novel. So, I have done everything that is cheap or free. I have created author pages, promoted my book for free on Kindle, and have tried to increase my social media influence. Now, I am looking into book signings for local authors.

My primary goal was not to make millions off of my book—even though that would be lovely. The reality has hit that, so far, I won’t be able to quit my day job on the profits I have made. Rather, I might be able to take my husband out to breakfast on that money. My main goal always was to develop my potential gift for writing and to produce a good novel with a satisfying ending. I wanted to write a novel that would make people feel something. The situations in the novel were created just for that effect. I didn’t start out with an outline. I just wrote the scenes and weaved them together. I knew where I wanted the novel to head, but many of the surprises and twists came later in the writing process. I have heard that in the creative process, a muse is sometimes channeled, who guides the whole endeavor. This was certainly true for me.

My big goal is for my novel to reach my target audience. I think women my age, who were a young adult in the 1980s, who struggle with feelings of inadequacy, who want to do the right thing, and who also yearn for romance, are the most likely people to enjoy my novel. Having said that, my daughter, who obviously is from a younger generation than me, read it and enjoyed it. If only a few people really enjoy reading my book, then my goal has been accomplished.

And if you do read my novel, and enjoy it, please leave me a review on Amazon. A good review, by far, is one of the best ways to get my novel noticed, and I would be very grateful.